Cover of How Stella Got Her Groove BackWe all know that I am a single mom and we know how that can be but nobody ever said that single moms shouldn't get out there and have a life. I must say that momma may have lost her groove there for a minute but momma sure is working at getting it back.
I have to admit that I love life as a single woman. I like the fact that I don't have to answer to anyone and there is no one to tell when I am coming back or how long I am going to be gone. Since I have been getting myself back on track and taking back my future, my health and my body I realized that I don't have to settle for just anything but that I am in control of my own destiny and what I want out of life and what I want out of a partner.
But I am sure you all aren't reading this to find out about my health, body and future I am talking about getting back into the swing of things about getting back out there on the market. Some days I feel like Stella from How Stella Got Her Groove back minus being in my 40's and finding a young man in Jamaica but I feel like her in the sense of being in a rut and then finding my way out of it.
My close friends know that I recover pretty quickly I am not easily broken and I for the most part never miss a step. I am like that line in the song Irreplaceable by Beyonce "I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinkin' You're irreplaceable?"
Well I am here to tell you that momma may have been in a rut there for a minute a very quick minute but momma got her body on point, grew the hair out and is single and ready to mingle...I am not opposed to having a nice pool boy hanging around the house either (and I don't even have a pool).
I am of course not trying to rush into anything but I know that being me means that I don't have to settle for just anything. I realized something that just because I am a single mom I don't have to just accept anything because there are plenty of men out there looking for qualities that I have and don't mind one bit that I have a child. It's truly a beautiful thing when you realize your worth and what you deserve.
Oh and sorry this post was kinda late but you know Momma Got Her Groove Back and momma isn't just sitting at home these days....